One of those days

Yesterday, and the previous few days have been on the rough side. I think the boys are acting out? And realizing that Barry's not here, and having some trouble processing that. Well Gabe especially. He's been a bit of a handful as of late, throwing things, hitting, just not being nice. I know that it's gotta be confusing to a little 2 year old, so I try to give him the benefit of the doubt. But, yesterday, after the 1 millionth time out, I'd just about lost it. So I called up my friend Jackie and we decided to go play. Best.Idea.Ever. So I have no idea where this park is. I know it's NEAR Saylorville Lake. That's pretty much all I know. If I ever want to go again, I'll have to follow Jackie, because without her, I'd still be driving around.

The first picture of the day. Ok so Julian? He's FOUR. FOUR. Not Fourteen! He already poses, dresses and acts like a broody teenager. What am I going to do when he's *actually* a brooding teenager?


Here he is again,testing me.


Gabe, not quite sure.


Jackie's oldest cutie, B!


Barry saw this picture on facebook and said, "Oh I love it when they play nicely together." If you'll notice, that's not at all what is happening. Julian is gleefully splashing the unsuspecting Gabe.






I LOVE this 2 shot series




I LOVE this boy! Jackie's son, B.


**Actually** Playing nicely


Julian's been super into building lately. Yesterday he built a house, complete with a Styrofoam chimney out of my steam cleaner's box! It was impressive.


My baby!


All in all, a super successful outing. Julian passed out in the car. Gabe stayed awake but passed out upon arriving home. That's the measure of a good play date! How long did the kids nap?

Le Slacker

So Barry's been in the field. In the field means he can't check my blog. So I thought to myself, if my reason for updating the blog can't read it, then what's the point of staying up late to blog?

This past week has been a little more chill than last. On Monday we had our good friend Laura over for dinner (yay for a reason to 'cook'! It's amazing how much I don't like cooking just for me to eat. My kids are what we call, picky. Which means they don't like to eat a lot of food. Well, Julian anyway. Gabe? He's an eater.)

It was also Laura's birthday this week, so the boys and I baked cupcakes! I LOVE yellow cupcakes with chocolate fudge icing! And sprinkles are a definite!


The boys also proceeded to be crazy while she was here, but thankfully slept well. I think they were trying to impress her.

Later during the week, they put on a play for me. Did you know? Superman and Buzz Lightyear are BFF? Well it's true, and I have proof!

Check out these abs!


Crazy Posers!


Cheeseballs


Gabe just adores his big brother


Laura came over again yesterday, to watch the boys while I cleaned a little. My mom is coming on Wednesday! (HOLLLLLLLLER!) and I needed to do some deep cleaning. I'm so thankful for good friends, and for her spending one of her last nights in DSM before she goes home for the rest of summer, to play with my kids and help me out! I love you Laura!



The boys do too!

Barry's home at the hotel for a little while, on base, and then will be back out in the field all week next week. He's having fun though, I think. They saw some cactus, got to play with compasses, and guns. And they had a frequent visitor in their tent, a dirty mouse that wanted to steal snacks, and a one time visitor, who met its untimely death, a scorpion! Julian's loving hearing about daddy's adventures in Texas, and asks me daiiiiiily when we're going to Texas. I am so excited to GET to Texas, not so much for the drive there.

4th of July Weekend!

Because let's be honest. This is the kind of holiday that lasts alllll weekend!

Saturday, the boys and I (along with some fun friends) ventured to the West Des Moines Parade. Julian was a little sad that there wasn't a marching band, that's totally his favorite part of a parade. He was quite enamored with the firetrucks, and police cars, and with the candy! Holy candy. We got SO MUCH CANDY!

This picture was taken (by my good friend Jamie! Thanks!!) at the END of the parade. Which is why we all look so beat down. LOL


The boys, actually sat and watched the parade. They sat with some friends of ours, and normally both are so shy, but warmed right up to them!


Gabe's favorite float of the parade



Gabe's first, second, or who knows how many candies from the parade



I'm not sure when he turned 12...


One of the many firetrucks!




Not sure how, but I've managed to get pictures of cooperating kids? I'll take it, but it's miraculous!


Last night, before we went looking for fireworks (which were apparently postponed until tonight?!) Gabe found the 4th of July candy.

Surprised Gabe


Cheeseball Gabe


Almost 'cute face' Gabe



For Barry:

We're hanging in there. Excited for tonight, when Laura comes over for dinner :) We miss you, and will miss you while you're in the field. Love you.

Day 4, new toys and a book review

Day 4 was considered a success, I'd say. They napped, hallelujah. I stupidly stayed up late finish a book. I'd started it before Barry left, and it was kind of slow to get into. But then once the story started unfolding, started getting good, I couldn't and wouldn't put it down.



At first I had trouble with the Swedish references, considering I'd never been to Sweden, nor do I know anything about Sweden, but once I got past that mentally, I could really get into the story. I did like the Ikea references, ha. Anyway, suffice to say, I loved this book, and bought the sequel today. It is a little slow to get into, but once you do, oh man. Twists, turns, and super surprises! I can't wait to get started on the 2nd book, but I promise to myself and my sleep, that I will not stay up until 1:30 reading.

We went to Tiffany's house, she's my visiting teaching companion, and had dinner. It was so sweet of her to invite us over. Julian and Gabe had sooo much fun playing with her little boy Jakob. Julian's become obsessed, like won't stop talking about it. I told him maybe Santa will deliver it for Christmas, or something.




http://www.discoverytoyslink.com/esuite/control/product?PURCHASE_STATE=STANDARD&product_id=2288

The boys were a little out of control at Tiffany's house, especially when the missionaries were trying to give a lesson.

They slept well, except that I've found Julian grinds his teeth quite badly when he sleeps. It kept waking me up. He's been sneaking into my bed every night, which is fine with me, aside from the teeth grinding.

Home all Day! (3)

So Wednesday night was a little rough. We'd been invited to a splash pad yesterday, but I asked J if he wanted to go, and he said no. So we stayed home. We had the boys' favorite for lunch 'roni cheese. And then, finally ventured out for dinner. Taco Bell. Healthy times.

We built forts after dumping out the pool, and playing in the sprinklers.

They made cute faces


(I'm not sure why, but they do that and say cute face? Not exactly the cutest pose I've ever seen)

This? To me much cuter!


We had some interesting sleep patterns yesterday. First. I was talking to my mom on the phone when it got REALLY quiet. I told her I had to call her back, I needed to make sure that Gabe was still alive (kind of joking, but there was a fleeting moment of panic.)

He totally passed out on the couch at 11:30! So unlike him, but makes sense with the really crap sleep job they both did on Wednesday night



Here's another rare occurrance in the Palizzi house.



Julian passed out on the couch! Under my blanket, with his hands folded. CUTE!

We have big plans for today, we will see how much we actually do. The whining monsters are in full force here. Driving me crazy in the 10 minutes we've been downstairs.

A Day (2) at the Beach

You may or may not remember this beach/park. I broke/fractured my ankle there last summer. Julian's been hesitant to go back, since he remembers quite well, my fall in the huge hole. He always asks to go there, but is always scared when we actually do. When we got home, he was so excited because I didn't even hurt my ankle! ♥

We had planned to meet up with our friends, Jamie, Kaleb and Kaden! And got a bonus, some more friends, Mandy, Carter and Benton!

After lunch about to go hit the water again! (Miracle they're both looking at the camera!


Building Sand Castles


Scopin' out the water-


Intense, about something? I think he was mad I was mama-razzi




Another miracle. Playing together


Jumping




SO much fun!


(For Barry)
Day #2 wasn't so bad. We spent a lot of time outside. We were invited to the Waukee Farmer's Market, and that was fun! The boys had cotton candy ice cream, and Julian didn't even melt down when they didn't have the rainbow kind! Progress, progress! We miss you and are glad you made it down to Texas. And Julian's even happier to know that they have toilets in Texas. PS Take a picture of a cactus for him! He's dying to see one.

For Barry

I'm going to try to blog daily while he's away. We'll see how I do.

Here are my gorgeous boys yesterday at the zoo! <3


I printed two copies of this picture off and will hang it above the boys' beds so that they can see daddy every night.


The boys wanted Perky Bears for dinner




Cute faces-




Gabe only napped for an hour today, so at 7:11, he's ready for bed. I'm going to get them all bathed up and hopefully down for the count. Our neighbor mowed the front yard today. So sweet.

We love you and miss you, and hope that you have a fun time on your road trip to Texas!